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Sunday, October 23, 2011

Good Times with Family AND Cousins

We've had some great times with family and cousins this last month. The first weekend of October, Beth, Max, and Mya came to visit (Chris was in Brazil on business), and we all (including Pat and Roger) headed out to Pinter's Pumpkin Patch - a new hot spot just a few minutes outside of Decorah. The kids had a great time as you can see from the pictures...

Ready to go!

Racing ducks and checking out the bunny houses.

Enjoying the slides (kids and adults alike)!


And just for fun - here's this year's "pumpkin patch" picture along with last year's. The kids have grown so much - and pretty soon (11-11-11) another cousin will be added to the mix! As you can see, we still have to master the skill of looking at the camera!

October 2011

October 2010

This last weekend, we (Pat and Roger, Hodens, and us) spent Saturday/Sunday morning in Des Moines for Brian's cousin's wedding. The kids enjoyed some extra-special time in the pool with Brian and Chris while Pat, Roger, Beth, and I went to the wedding. The kids held up great considering they barely napped and even got busy on the dance-floor as soon as dinner was over. "Well," of course, does include the 15 minute tantrum Livy threw because of not wanting to wear her "fancy clothes" which resulted in me forcing her into her clothing and dragging her through the entire complex screaming. Thankfully, Livy returned to her normal self quickly enough and enjoyed practicing her spin movies and her "chicken-flap" as I like to call it on the dance floor. We got some pretty cute pictures of the kiddos in the photo-booth too. This morning we hit up the pool again, but the kids were absolutely exhausted and had had enough after an hour. Our ride home was relatively peaceful, although neither Liv or Grace slept enough. I don't have any pictures of the weekend (although Beth does - check out http://hodenblog.blogspot.com), but I did snap this picture of Grace taken at 5:30pm (she never really did get up after this besides to put her jammies on and drink some milk).

Needless to say, the kids had a great time and were totally exhausted.

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Time with Daddy

I am always reminding myself these days not to stress so much about the small things - the kitchen floor, the dust bunnies, the laundry, but...I'm not necessarily good at following my own advice. I'm always trying to play and clean at the same time, make a game out of folding laundry, and multi-task in other ways that often leave me in trouble, like a bed unmade at 10:0 at night and smelly, "clean" sheets that have been in the washer since noon when I initially got distracted. When will I ever learn to just relax, to just play, and to just enjoy? Soon, I hope...I consider myself a work in progress.


But, to get to the point: I'm so glad the girls have their daddy. Someone who lets them jump off the stairs onto piles of pillows, who lets Livy "pick-up" herself not caring if things go in the right box or not. Someone who takes them for rides on the lawn mover, plays hide and seek when it's really not that fun since Livy tells you where to hide, and endlessly "roars" while the girls run and hide in their tent or tunnel. Someone who knows how to start the Wii and allows Gracie to "play boxing" even if it doesn't exactly teach her to love her neighbor, and someone who's willing to be to recipient of body slams, stomach jumping, horse-back riding, or any other type of wrestling the girls can come up with.


I know I play too; I'm good at the crayons/paint/playdoh, the music, the park, and the "help Mommy" activities, but I'm not Brian. I'm structured, he's not. I worry about messes, he doesn't. The girls love their mommy, I know, but the giggles and shrieks of happiness I hear coming from the basement as I clean up the kitchen, make me know they treasure their time with daddy to no end.

Monday, October 3, 2011

A Conversation...

A conversation between Livy and myself....

Me: Livy, you need to wear your coat.

Livy: Why do I always have to wear my coat now?

Me: Because it's cold out.

Livy: Why is it so cold out?

Me: Because it's fall.

Livy: Why is it called fall?

Me: Because the leaves are falling.

Livy: Why are the leaves falling?

Me: Because it's cold out...and pretty soon it'll be snowing outside (internal - "yuck" being thought).

Livy: And we can build snowmen? Yea!

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Bathtime Fun

Lots of fun with Miss Mya.

And lots of fun between sisters too.

Sunday, September 18, 2011

Preschool!

This last Friday marked Olivia's sixth day of preschool. Alas, this entry was, of course, supposed to have been written and published her very fist day, but, oh well, I should stop berating myself for late posts - this is life - at least it's my life.

Anyways - preschool, I think I can say, has been a positive experience. I have just the right amount of time to pick Olivia during my lunch, and I've really enjoyed doing this. She's always quite jaunty as she walks out the classroom doors, running to hold my hand and show me whatever is in her backpack - we frequently stop to do this before even walking to the car. She waves goodbye to her teachers who, after week one, she would tell people are Mrs. Kane and Mrs. Bohr, and she frequently talks about her friends Kelby and Dannika. So far it seems like her favorite activities include playing kitchen and being outside on the playground. I don't really get much else out of her besides this and what she had for snack. Her least favorite activity - ironically enough - is quiet "reading" time. I guess she resists this a little bit which surprises me as she likes to do this at home. Otherwise, her teachers say she has been very cooperative and a bit shy but slowing opening up.


Brian does drop-offs in the mornings, and, although Olivia hasn't fully embraced this part of school yet, we're told that the "tears" don't last long. I say "tears" because they really don't qualify as such - they're just some watery eyes that I have no doubt are gone by the time Brian is back in the car. Her excitement about school otherwise makes me feel like she's in the right place - and really, I'm not surprised to have her be a bit hesitant - that's my Livy.

Independence and maturity have been growing tremendously with Olivia this last month. I'm not sure if this is because of preschool or just because - probably a combination. Olivia's been much more apt to get dressed on her own (well, with a little help still), put her coat on and truly try to zip it, and even leave her silky at home during daycare hours on occasion. She's shown a lot of interest in picking out her clothes too, and we've had some dry night-time diapers. During the day potties happen pretty much completely on her own - a major step forward after the brief chaos we had this summer when we had a couple weeks worth of accident-central around here - not what you'd expect for a girl who'd been potty-trained for over a year. Olivia has become the please and thank-you queen (finally!), and frequently positively rewards herself by making sure I've noticed her usage of the words. She also has been really insistent on walking in to daycare completely by herself after school. The fist time she wanted to do this I told her I'd just come to the door - no, that wasn't okay, so I told her I'd stand by the truck. Her reply - "Mommy go in the truck and close the door." Well, okay! So, since then, that's what I do after getting just about the sweetest hug and kiss goodbye.

My little girl is growing up, that's for sure. I remind myself to remember some things - how she still calls popcorn, hopcorn and the elevator, the elligater. I don't ever want to forget going school shopping with her, seeing how excited she was about her Tinkerbell folder or how proud she was to show her daddy the "Sneezknexes" she picked out for school. Of course, I could just about lose my mind sometimes like when she threw a tantrum for 20 minutes about wearing socks for the first time this fall or when she gets out of bed for the 4th time at night, but the good far out-weigh anything else. The random "Mommy, I love you's" are, as cliche as it sounds, truly music to my ears.

Well, I see this entry has gotten a bit side-tracked from its title, but I guess that's what happens when you post an entry only once in a blue moon. Enough for now.

Monday, August 15, 2011

The Motorcade

Decorah, a small town of 8,000, made the news today! President Obama spoke at a local business - Seed Savers to a crowd of 500 people. I wish I could have been lucky enough to be one of the 500!

However, even though we weren't part of the audience, we were not disappointed as we got a close up of the motorcade as it drove by our house taking the president from Seed Savers (located north of town) to the Hotel Winneshiek. The road was completely blocked off for a half hour before it came through, and as we waited for the official motorcade numerous Secret Service vehicles drove by - the agents wore suits or shirts with bullet-proof vests (at least I think that's what I was seeing). They all had black sunglasses too - just like the movies! :) Just kidding - well, they did have sunglasses on, but maybe that was because it was actually quite sunny out!

If you look closely at the first bus (left side) you can see President Obama's arms - he was standing up looking/waving out the windows. Want to know what he was looking at - scroll down to see the sign the neighbor's made!


And a few pictures of the girls and their neighborhood friends. Clearly they were focused on "better" things like playing babies and eating freezies. :)


I went walking downtown with my friend Jamie later on...Snipers on the roof and Secret Service in front of the Hotel Winn. Gigantic construction vehicles blocked all the cross streets downtown and cement road blocks blocked main street. As my step-dad said, Decorah might be the safest town in the country tonight!

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Bug Day

Back in July while Olivia was participating in the Wahlen Cabin play-group, she came home one day with a fancy "bug hat." It had been "Bug Day" at camp and before going exploring for cool bugs like ants, all the kids got to decorate a visor to wear. After their bug-hunt, each kid also made their own bug using construction paper. At this point in the play-group Olivia had finally gotten over her "I don't decorate anything" period, and came home with a pretty impressively decorated hat and an even more interesting looking bug. Not only was she quite proud of these at the time, but she still talks about her bug which is hanging up on the fridge and she and Gracie both enjoy wearing her hat on occasion.